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So called Suggestion

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Everyone Is Mature — And That’s Exactly the Problem We often hear people say, “Everyone is mature now. They know what they’re doing.” On the surface, it sounds fair. After all, every individual has their own experiences, struggles, and ways of thinking. No one likes being told what to do. So I thought—maybe I should stop telling anything at all. If everyone already knows what they’re doing, then who am I to suggest something? Even when the intention is good, advice today feels unnecessary, even unwanted. But here’s the reality: maturity doesn’t mean we always make the right choices. Today, even if you suggest something genuinely good—something meant to help—many people take it as interference. Advice feels like control. Concern feels like judgement. Guidance feels like ego. So instead of listening, people defend their decisions, even when those decisions may harm them in the long run. The idea of “I know everything” has quietly replaced the idea of “I can still learn.” We l...
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Attempt No.4

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Four Attempts, One Dream: Waiting Between Panic and Hope I am Sugyan Nanda, a Political Science student from Balangir, Odisha — carrying middle-class dreams, family expectations, silent battles, and a hope that has survived every near miss. Appearing for UGC NET is not just an exam for me anymore. It has become a journey of patience, resilience, and emotional endurance. My first attempt gave me 210 marks. The JRF cutoff was 224. I cleared NET but missed JRF by about seven questions. In my second attempt, distractions took over — mental pressure, uncertainty, life. My score dropped to 198. Again, only NET. JRF slipped away. By the third attempt, after completing my postgraduation, I was more focused. I scored 234. The JRF cutoff was 238. This time, I missed JRF by just two questions. That one hurt the most. Being that close makes you feel both proud and broken. Now comes the fourth attempt. This time I scored 214 according to the answer key. A few questions are under challen...
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Is Democracy Backsliding?

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Democratic Backsliding in India Meaning of Democratic Backsliding Democratic backsliding means the slow weakening of democracy. It does not happen through military coups. It happens when elected governments reduce freedoms, weaken institutions, and centralize power. Elections continue, but democratic quality declines. Why India Matters as a Case India is the world’s largest democracy with a strong Constitution. Yet, in recent years, concerns have grown about: -Executive dominance -Reduced space for dissent -Pressure on institutions This makes India an important case to study democratic erosion within a constitutional system. Weakening of Civil Liberties Increasing restrictions on protests and public gatherings. Use of laws against activists, students, and critics. Internet shutdowns during sensitive political moments.   Impact : Citizens feel less free to express disagreement. Citizenship Amendment Act (CAA) and NRC Protests (2019–20) CAA led to nationwide protests dema...
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Why Republic Day Is Worth Celebrating — And Where India Stands Today

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Why Republic Day Is Worth Celebrating — And Where India Stands Today Republic Day is not just a holiday or a parade on television. It marks the day India gave itself a Constitution in 1950 — a promise of justice, liberty, equality, and fraternity to every citizen. It reminds us that real power lies not in rulers, but in the people. We celebrate Republic Day because it represents struggle, sacrifice, and hope. Our freedom fighters didn’t fight only for independence; they fought for dignity, rights, and democracy. The Constitution became the voice of the poor, the marginalized, and the ordinary citizen. It tells us that no one is above the law. But celebration must also come with reflection. Today, India stands at a crossroads. We have made progress in infrastructure, technology, and global presence. Yet, challenges remain deep. Unemployment worries the youth. Inequality is rising. Institutions face pressure. Dissent is often misunderstood. Social harmony feels fragile at tim...
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Why Indian Civic sense always questioned?

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Why Is Indian Civic Sense Always Questioned? Civic sense means basic responsibility towards society—like following rules, keeping public places clean, respecting queues, traffic laws, and other people’s space. In India, civic sense is often questioned because many of us treat public property as “nobody’s property. We easily blame the government, but forget our own role. Spitting on roads, throwing garbage anywhere, jumping signals, breaking lines, or staying silent when something wrong happens—these small acts slowly damage our collective culture. One major reason is mindset. From childhood, we are rarely taught that streets, buses, parks, and offices belong to all of us. Education focuses on marks, not manners. Also, people think, “One person won’t make a difference,” so everyone keeps repeating the same mistakes. Another reason is lack of accountability. When rules are not strictly followed or enforced, people stop taking them seriously. But change doesn’t start from poli...
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We make the day Special

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Not a Single Day Is Special — It Is You Who Makes It Special From my perspective, no day is born special. Monday or Sunday, birthday or ordinary date on the calendar—every day arrives the same way. What changes its meaning is us . It is our thoughts, our efforts, our attitude, and the way we choose to live that give a day its value. A day becomes special when I decide not to give up, when I choose patience over anger, hope over fear, and effort over excuses. Even the most difficult days teach lessons, build strength, and shape character. Some days give happiness, some give pain—but both add meaning to life. Waiting for a “special day” is a mistake. Life does not pause for celebrations or perfect moments. The real power lies in making today count—by learning something new, helping someone, staying honest with myself, or simply moving one step forward. In the end, days do not define us. We define our days. Not a single day is special— it is you who makes it special .
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Grateful beyond words

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Grateful Beyond Words: A Journey from Day One to What Lies Ahead From the very first day of my existence to this present moment, one truth stands tall in my life—I have always received more than I ever asked for . Not because my journey has been easy, but because it has been meaningful . And at the core of that meaning lies gratitude . Gratitude, for me, is not a seasonal emotion or a reaction to success. It is a state of awareness —an understanding that even pain carries purpose, and even delay carries direction. Gratitude in Struggle I was not born into abundance. Resources were limited, opportunities uncertain, and the road ahead often unclear. There were moments when life tested patience, resilience, and faith simultaneously. I asked for strength—and life gave me character . I asked for answers—and life gave me questions that shaped my thinking . Looking back, I realize that what I once called hardship was actually preparation . Every rejection sharpened my focus. ...
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Mobile data on : i am off

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Choosing Long-Term Growth Over Temporary Pleasures In life, we often find ourselves caught between two choices — one that gives us short-term pleasure and another that leads to long-term growth. Most of us know what is right, yet we end up choosing the temporary option. It feels easy, fun, and effortless. But what we don’t realize is that these small choices, made again and again, shape our future. Sometimes, I also indulge in things that give me momentary happiness — scrolling on social media for hours, wasting time on useless talks, skipping important work for entertainment, or making decisions based on impulse. These actions give pleasure for a while but leave behind guilt, regret, and wasted time. It’s a cycle of temporary joy and permanent pain. But today, I decide to break that cycle. There are so many better things to do — reading, exercising, learning something new, working on my goals, or simply spending quiet time with myself. These things don’t always give instan...
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Angry bird ? No

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  Why You Should Never Act in Anger In life, we all feel angry at times. It’s a normal emotion. But the biggest mistake we make is acting while we are still angry. Speaking or doing something in anger often leads to regret later. When we are angry, our mind is not clear. We stop thinking logically. We say things that hurt others, we take decisions that are not wise, and we behave in ways that do not reflect our true self. Later, when the anger goes away, we realize the damage we’ve done – to our relationships, to our image, and even to our goals. I have personally experienced this. Every time I acted out of anger, I ended up messing things up – with my words, my actions, and my behavior. I have hurt people I care about and created problems that could have been avoided with just a little patience. That’s why it is important to pause when you’re angry. Don’t reply. Don’t decide. Don’t react. Just take a break. Go for a walk, take a deep breath, stay silent, or simply leav...
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Focus on urself

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  Focus on Yourself, Not on Others In life, we often compare ourselves with others. We see their success, their happiness, or the way they live—and suddenly we feel small. This can make us feel insecure, jealous, or even unhappy with our own life. But over time, I’ve come to realize something important: these negative emotions are empty. They don’t help us grow. They only distract us. The truth is, comparing yourself with others never brings real peace. Everyone has a different story, different timing, and different struggles. What looks perfect on the outside might not be perfect inside. So, wasting time worrying about others only pulls you away from your own growth. Instead, the key to a better life is self-improvement. You don’t have to be better than others—you just need to be better than who you were yesterday. Life is about correcting your mistakes, learning from your failures, and slowly shaping yourself into the best version of you. It’s not easy. It takes time,...
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Never give up

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  Never Give Up — Even When You Fail In life, failure is inevitable. You will fail. You will lose. You will make mistakes. Even the strongest dreams tremble under the weight of doubt and inconsistency. But if there’s one truth that remains, it’s this: never give up. We often set out with big dreams and high hopes, expecting a smooth road to success. But reality is different. You stumble. Plans fall apart. People may not believe in you. Worse, sometimes you stop believing in yourself. But this is not the end—it’s just a part of the journey. Mistakes are not signs of weakness; they are the stepping stones of growth. Each failure teaches a lesson. Every loss builds resilience. And in moments when you feel broken and defeated, that tiny flicker of hope within you is more powerful than you think. The dream may seem distant, the process may seem painful, and progress may be slow. But if you keep showing up—every day, even when you don’t feel like it—you’re already winning. Co...
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The unseen path

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  Title: Embracing the Mess: The Unseen Path to Success Success is often painted as a straight road — discipline, focus, achievement. But the reality is far from that. It's more like a chaotic, confusing, emotional rollercoaster that tests you at every turn. And lately, I’ve been on that exact ride. There are days when I feel like a complete failure. I make mistakes I promised myself I wouldn’t. I lose consistency. I compare my journey with others and fall into the trap of self-doubt. Anxiety creeps in, my head spins with stress, and I wonder — am I even on the right path? But through all this inner turmoil, something powerful became clear: this struggle is not the opposite of success — it is part of it. Every failure I face, every mistake I regret, and every breakdown I endure is shaping me. Not in the way I imagined success would feel, but in a much deeper, meaningful way. I’m learning. I’m adapting. I’m building the mental and emotional strength needed to handle what...
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Cost of cashback

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  Title: The Cost of Cashback: A Reflection on Greed Disguised as Gain By Sugyan Nanda In a world increasingly driven by digital payments and marketing gimmicks, cashback offers have emerged as a new temptation. The idea is simple and catchy: spend a certain amount, and you’ll get a small percentage back. It seems like a win-win — but lately, I’ve realized that this so-called "gain" is silently draining my wallet, and more importantly, my sense of control. I started using cashback schemes with the mindset of saving money. After all, if I was going to spend anyway, why not earn something back? But over time, I found myself spending just to get cashback, not because I needed to. I was transferring money unnecessarily, making purchases I didn't need, all in the hope of earning a small reward. The worst part? Often, the cashback amount I received didn’t even match the hype that pulled me in. It became a habit — one that seemed harmless but was financially and psyc...
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Second place silence

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" What It Feels to Be Second: A Margin That Meant Everything " By Sugyan Nanda Dreams don’t always die with a loud crash. Sometimes, they dissolve quietly—by 0.34 marks . At one point of my life, I have envisioned a moment. Standing tall at the convocation, wearing that medal of honour, hearing my name announced as the Gold Medalist in M.A. Political Science, and watching my parents’ eyes gleam with pride. It was more than just a medal. It was for every sacrifice, every late night, every rejection faced, and every time I told myself, “One day, this will be worth it.” But that day… didn’t come as I imagined. I missed it. By 0.34 marks. Being second is a strange place to be. You are celebrated, but not remembered. You are praised, but not rewarded. And what hurts more is not that I failed—I didn’t—but that I came so close to the dream I built for years, only to watch it slip through my fingers. This isn’t the first time. In matric, in +2, and now in postgraduation, ...
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A promise to change

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  A New Beginning at 22: My Promise to Change At the age of 22, I have come to a deep realization—I've made many mistakes in life. Some small, some big. Mistakes in different areas—studies, behavior, relationships, emotions, and decisions. And yes, they have hurt me. They made me feel ashamed, guilty, and sad. Sometimes I would sit alone and think, “Why did I do this? Why wasn’t I better?” That burden used to stay in my mind like a heavy weight. But today, I’ve had enough. I don't want to carry that weight anymore. I don't want to live in regret. The past has already happened, and I can’t change it. But what I can change is myself—my present and my future. From now on, I am promising myself something very serious: I will not repeat the same mistakes again. I will take every lesson from the past and use it to grow. I want to become the best version of myself—no matter how hard it gets, no matter how long it takes. I want to become a good human being, a responsibl...
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Selective Outrage: When Jokes Spark Controversy, But Bigger Issues Don’t

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 “Selective Outrage: When Jokes Spark Controversy, But Bigger Issues Don’t” Disclaimer: This article reflects personal opinions and is not intended to hurt, offend, or target any individual or group. Readers are encouraged to think critically, verify facts, and form their own perspectives. (Someone turned on the TV) I saw a CM of a state talking about a youtube comedy show..yes you hear it right A YOUTUBE SHOW. What has happened in the country that a CM decided to address it ? To answer this question and explain the current situation, Myself Bimal Kumar Mahapatra, along With Sugyan Nanda came up with this blog. Comedy is meant to make people laugh, but sometimes, it can also lead to trouble. But in Today’s world, where outrage spreads faster than context, comedians are constantly at the Wrong side of the story. That’s exactly what happened with India’s Got Latent, a fun show Hosted by Samay Raina, that suddenly found itself at the center of a big controversy. During an...
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Heat blood

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 This night has no end.. if will only after that day. Will be written after attaining the desired outcome. Found reasons....
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Feeling lost

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 Overcoming Setbacks: A Lesson in Self-Reflection The recent semester has been a turning point in my life, marked by significant challenges that shook my confidence and tested my resolve. Reflecting on this period, I realize how certain habits and decisions led me to this point, but more importantly, I see the valuable lessons that emerged from the struggle. The Downfall 1. Taking Studies for Granted In the past, I excelled academically, and this consistent performance made me overconfident. I began to take my studies for granted, relying on past achievements instead of putting in the required effort now. As a result, my academic performance suffered, leaving me disappointed in myself. 2. Struggles in Personal Relationships Relationships, while important, became a source of tension for me. I found myself asking for more time from my partner, who wasn’t always able to provide it. This imbalance left me frustrated and distracted, affecting not just my emotional well-being...
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Emotional fool

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Being Emotionally Vulnerable Do you ever feel like you are constantly on an emotional rollercoaster, where even the smallest things can trigger a flood of emotions? Being an emotional fool can be both a blessing and a curse, as it allows you to deeply experience life but can also leave you feeling vulnerable and overwhelmed. In this article, we will explore the ups and downs of being emotionally sensitive, and how to navigate through the challenges that come with it. The Emotional Rollercoaster: Crying, Laughing, and Everything in Between As an emotional fool, it doesn't take much to bring tears to your eyes or a smile to your face. Simple gestures, heartfelt words, or even a touching movie scene can trigger a torrent of emotions that are impossible to contain. While some may see this as a weakness, being able to express your feelings openly and authentically is actually a sign of strength and courage. Embracing your emotional side allows you to connect more deeply with...
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Expectations: The hidden culprit of Sadness

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"Stop Expecting and Fall in Love with What's Happening " Are you constantly feeling let down by those around you? Do you find yourself disappointed when your loved ones don't meet your expectations? It's time to shift your mindset and start focusing on yourself instead of relying on others to fulfill your needs. Expectations can often lead to disappointment, especially when they are not met by the people closest to us. In this article, I will share my perspective on why it's important to stop expecting and start embracing what life throws your way. Expectations Lead to Disappointment When we place expectations on others, we are essentially setting ourselves up for disappointment. People are inherently flawed and are bound to let us down at some point. Whether it's your family, friends, or loved ones, expecting them to act a certain way or meet specific needs is setting yourself up for potential heartache. When those expectations are not met, it...
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