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Choosing Long-Term Growth Over Temporary Pleasures In life, we often find ourselves caught between two choices — one that gives us short-term pleasure and another that leads to long-term growth. Most of us know what is right, yet we end up choosing the temporary option. It feels easy, fun, and effortless. But what we don’t realize is that these small choices, made again and again, shape our future. Sometimes, I also indulge in things that give me momentary happiness — scrolling on social media for hours, wasting time on useless talks, skipping important work for entertainment, or making decisions based on impulse. These actions give pleasure for a while but leave behind guilt, regret, and wasted time. It’s a cycle of temporary joy and permanent pain. But today, I decide to break that cycle. There are so many better things to do — reading, exercising, learning something new, working on my goals, or simply spending quiet time with myself. These things don’t always give instan...

  Why You Should Never Act in Anger In life, we all feel angry at times. It’s a normal emotion. But the biggest mistake we make is acting while we are still angry. Speaking or doing something in anger often leads to regret later. When we are angry, our mind is not clear. We stop thinking logically. We say things that hurt others, we take decisions that are not wise, and we behave in ways that do not reflect our true self. Later, when the anger goes away, we realize the damage we’ve done – to our relationships, to our image, and even to our goals. I have personally experienced this. Every time I acted out of anger, I ended up messing things up – with my words, my actions, and my behavior. I have hurt people I care about and created problems that could have been avoided with just a little patience. That’s why it is important to pause when you’re angry. Don’t reply. Don’t decide. Don’t react. Just take a break. Go for a walk, take a deep breath, stay silent, or simply leav...

  Focus on Yourself, Not on Others In life, we often compare ourselves with others. We see their success, their happiness, or the way they live—and suddenly we feel small. This can make us feel insecure, jealous, or even unhappy with our own life. But over time, I’ve come to realize something important: these negative emotions are empty. They don’t help us grow. They only distract us. The truth is, comparing yourself with others never brings real peace. Everyone has a different story, different timing, and different struggles. What looks perfect on the outside might not be perfect inside. So, wasting time worrying about others only pulls you away from your own growth. Instead, the key to a better life is self-improvement. You don’t have to be better than others—you just need to be better than who you were yesterday. Life is about correcting your mistakes, learning from your failures, and slowly shaping yourself into the best version of you. It’s not easy. It takes time,...

  Never Give Up — Even When You Fail In life, failure is inevitable. You will fail. You will lose. You will make mistakes. Even the strongest dreams tremble under the weight of doubt and inconsistency. But if there’s one truth that remains, it’s this: never give up. We often set out with big dreams and high hopes, expecting a smooth road to success. But reality is different. You stumble. Plans fall apart. People may not believe in you. Worse, sometimes you stop believing in yourself. But this is not the end—it’s just a part of the journey. Mistakes are not signs of weakness; they are the stepping stones of growth. Each failure teaches a lesson. Every loss builds resilience. And in moments when you feel broken and defeated, that tiny flicker of hope within you is more powerful than you think. The dream may seem distant, the process may seem painful, and progress may be slow. But if you keep showing up—every day, even when you don’t feel like it—you’re already winning. Co...

  Title: Embracing the Mess: The Unseen Path to Success Success is often painted as a straight road — discipline, focus, achievement. But the reality is far from that. It's more like a chaotic, confusing, emotional rollercoaster that tests you at every turn. And lately, I’ve been on that exact ride. There are days when I feel like a complete failure. I make mistakes I promised myself I wouldn’t. I lose consistency. I compare my journey with others and fall into the trap of self-doubt. Anxiety creeps in, my head spins with stress, and I wonder — am I even on the right path? But through all this inner turmoil, something powerful became clear: this struggle is not the opposite of success — it is part of it. Every failure I face, every mistake I regret, and every breakdown I endure is shaping me. Not in the way I imagined success would feel, but in a much deeper, meaningful way. I’m learning. I’m adapting. I’m building the mental and emotional strength needed to handle what...

  Title: The Cost of Cashback: A Reflection on Greed Disguised as Gain By Sugyan Nanda In a world increasingly driven by digital payments and marketing gimmicks, cashback offers have emerged as a new temptation. The idea is simple and catchy: spend a certain amount, and you’ll get a small percentage back. It seems like a win-win — but lately, I’ve realized that this so-called "gain" is silently draining my wallet, and more importantly, my sense of control. I started using cashback schemes with the mindset of saving money. After all, if I was going to spend anyway, why not earn something back? But over time, I found myself spending just to get cashback, not because I needed to. I was transferring money unnecessarily, making purchases I didn't need, all in the hope of earning a small reward. The worst part? Often, the cashback amount I received didn’t even match the hype that pulled me in. It became a habit — one that seemed harmless but was financially and psyc...

" What It Feels to Be Second: A Margin That Meant Everything " By Sugyan Nanda Dreams don’t always die with a loud crash. Sometimes, they dissolve quietly—by 0.34 marks . At one point of my life, I have envisioned a moment. Standing tall at the convocation, wearing that medal of honour, hearing my name announced as the Gold Medalist in M.A. Political Science, and watching my parents’ eyes gleam with pride. It was more than just a medal. It was for every sacrifice, every late night, every rejection faced, and every time I told myself, “One day, this will be worth it.” But that day… didn’t come as I imagined. I missed it. By 0.34 marks. Being second is a strange place to be. You are celebrated, but not remembered. You are praised, but not rewarded. And what hurts more is not that I failed—I didn’t—but that I came so close to the dream I built for years, only to watch it slip through my fingers. This isn’t the first time. In matric, in +2, and now in postgraduation, ...

  A New Beginning at 22: My Promise to Change At the age of 22, I have come to a deep realization—I've made many mistakes in life. Some small, some big. Mistakes in different areas—studies, behavior, relationships, emotions, and decisions. And yes, they have hurt me. They made me feel ashamed, guilty, and sad. Sometimes I would sit alone and think, “Why did I do this? Why wasn’t I better?” That burden used to stay in my mind like a heavy weight. But today, I’ve had enough. I don't want to carry that weight anymore. I don't want to live in regret. The past has already happened, and I can’t change it. But what I can change is myself—my present and my future. From now on, I am promising myself something very serious: I will not repeat the same mistakes again. I will take every lesson from the past and use it to grow. I want to become the best version of myself—no matter how hard it gets, no matter how long it takes. I want to become a good human being, a responsibl...

 “Selective Outrage: When Jokes Spark Controversy, But Bigger Issues Don’t” Disclaimer: This article reflects personal opinions and is not intended to hurt, offend, or target any individual or group. Readers are encouraged to think critically, verify facts, and form their own perspectives. (Someone turned on the TV) I saw a CM of a state talking about a youtube comedy show..yes you hear it right A YOUTUBE SHOW. What has happened in the country that a CM decided to address it ? To answer this question and explain the current situation, Myself Bimal Kumar Mahapatra, along With Sugyan Nanda came up with this blog. Comedy is meant to make people laugh, but sometimes, it can also lead to trouble. But in Today’s world, where outrage spreads faster than context, comedians are constantly at the Wrong side of the story. That’s exactly what happened with India’s Got Latent, a fun show Hosted by Samay Raina, that suddenly found itself at the center of a big controversy. During an...

 This night has no end.. if will only after that day. Will be written after attaining the desired outcome. Found reasons....

 Overcoming Setbacks: A Lesson in Self-Reflection The recent semester has been a turning point in my life, marked by significant challenges that shook my confidence and tested my resolve. Reflecting on this period, I realize how certain habits and decisions led me to this point, but more importantly, I see the valuable lessons that emerged from the struggle. The Downfall 1. Taking Studies for Granted In the past, I excelled academically, and this consistent performance made me overconfident. I began to take my studies for granted, relying on past achievements instead of putting in the required effort now. As a result, my academic performance suffered, leaving me disappointed in myself. 2. Struggles in Personal Relationships Relationships, while important, became a source of tension for me. I found myself asking for more time from my partner, who wasn’t always able to provide it. This imbalance left me frustrated and distracted, affecting not just my emotional well-being...

Being Emotionally Vulnerable Do you ever feel like you are constantly on an emotional rollercoaster, where even the smallest things can trigger a flood of emotions? Being an emotional fool can be both a blessing and a curse, as it allows you to deeply experience life but can also leave you feeling vulnerable and overwhelmed. In this article, we will explore the ups and downs of being emotionally sensitive, and how to navigate through the challenges that come with it. The Emotional Rollercoaster: Crying, Laughing, and Everything in Between As an emotional fool, it doesn't take much to bring tears to your eyes or a smile to your face. Simple gestures, heartfelt words, or even a touching movie scene can trigger a torrent of emotions that are impossible to contain. While some may see this as a weakness, being able to express your feelings openly and authentically is actually a sign of strength and courage. Embracing your emotional side allows you to connect more deeply with...

"Stop Expecting and Fall in Love with What's Happening " Are you constantly feeling let down by those around you? Do you find yourself disappointed when your loved ones don't meet your expectations? It's time to shift your mindset and start focusing on yourself instead of relying on others to fulfill your needs. Expectations can often lead to disappointment, especially when they are not met by the people closest to us. In this article, I will share my perspective on why it's important to stop expecting and start embracing what life throws your way. Expectations Lead to Disappointment When we place expectations on others, we are essentially setting ourselves up for disappointment. People are inherently flawed and are bound to let us down at some point. Whether it's your family, friends, or loved ones, expecting them to act a certain way or meet specific needs is setting yourself up for potential heartache. When those expectations are not met, it...

  The Art of Happiness: Why Giving is the Key to True Joy? In today's fast-paced and often self-centered world, it's easy to get caught up in our own desires and expectations. We often find ourselves seeking validation and fulfillment from external sources, whether it be through material possessions, relationships, or achievements. Lately, I've come to realize that true happiness lies in the act of giving without expecting anything in return. The Power of Selfless Giving When we give from a place of genuine kindness and generosity, we not only uplift others but also bring joy and fulfillment into our own lives. The act of giving allows us to connect with others on a deeper level and create meaningful relationships based on mutual respect and gratitude. Whether it's offering a helping hand to a friend in need, donating to a charitable cause, or simply spreading positivity through small acts of kindness, the act of giving can have a profound impact on both the...

 I Hate Myself: The Struggle of Self-Loathing In life, there are times when we find ourselves in a constant battle with our own thoughts and emotions. The feeling of self-hatred can be a crippling force that consumes our every waking moment. It can stem from past actions, present insecurities, or fears of the future. No matter the root cause, the end result is always the same – a deep sense of disgust and loathing towards oneself. The Act I Did, The Act I Am Doing Self-hatred often arises from a disconnect between our actions and our values. We may find ourselves engaging in behaviors that go against our moral compass, causing inner turmoil and self-reproach. The more we act in ways that contradict our beliefs, the more intense our feelings of self-hatred become. It becomes a vicious cycle of doing things we regret, which only serves to deepen our self-loathing. The Impact of Shyness, Insecurity, and Fear Shyness, insecurity, and fear can also play a significant role in...

 "In life, we don’t get what we expect, sometimes we get better, a joy to reflect." In life, it’s natural to have expectations. We hope for certain outcomes, look forward to specific events, and anticipate the actions of people around us. However, reality often unfolds differently from our plans. Yet, this divergence from our expectations can lead to outcomes even better than we had imagined. We might pray or wish for particular things, but the universe—or God, if you believe—often has a different, grander plan. What we receive may not always align with our desires, but it tends to be exactly what we need. This realization encourages us to trust that we are being guided towards an amazing life, one filled with the experiences we deserve, even if they weren’t what we originally envisioned. Believing in oneself and having patience are crucial. Everything we seek will arrive at the perfect time. When faced with challenges or undesirable situations, it's essential...

A Transformative Summer: Lessons from Self-Reflection and Growth This summer vacation stands out as one of the best in my life, not because of endless fun and adventures, but due to the profound self-discovery it brought. It became a self-vacation in every aspect of my life, encompassing career, family, personal life, and desires. Throughout this period, I encountered both good and bad experiences. There were moments of laughter, tears, and even times when I felt utterly dumbfounded. Despite the challenges, this summer was a true journey of learning, one that I am proud to have undertaken. I may have made many mistakes along the way, but I am grateful for the valuable lessons they imparted. These lessons will undoubtedly guide me toward living a better life. During my lowest points, while sitting isolated at home, I gained significant insights. This time of reflection and introspection has provided me with a deeper understanding of myself and my path forward. I am determine...

 "Regret's hold, a story yet untold." Regret is a powerful emotion that often stems from our past mistakes and bad deeds. Recently, I’ve found myself overwhelmed by regret, thinking about both old and recent wrongdoings. These thoughts weigh heavily on my mind, but I've decided to take this as a turning point in my life. The first step in moving forward is acknowledging the mistakes. By admitting what we've done wrong, we can begin to understand why we did it and how we can prevent it from happening again. Understanding the impact of our actions on others and ourselves is crucial. Mistakes can hurt people we care about and damage our own self-esteem, making reflection an important part of the healing process. Seeking forgiveness is a vital step in mending relationships and easing our own guilt. It takes courage to apologize, but it shows sincerity and a willingness to change. While forgiveness from others may not always come, making the effort is what ...

 " In life's journey, I'm on a quest,  to rediscover me at my best". Lately, I've noticed that life's challenges, the influence of others, and my own mistakes have changed me. I feel like I've lost my true self, becoming someone I never intended to be. I hate this feeling and I want to find the real me again. It's time to work on myself and discover the best version of who I truly am. I'm dedicated to becoming the best version of myself. I'll strive to excel in every aspect of life, giving my all to make it happen. Name- SUGYAN NANDA Post graduate student of Political Science Rajendra University, Balangir 

My journey Through Morning and Midnight Sensitivity. Behind their laughs and their smiles, boys carry emotional files. As I navigate my 20s, balancing studies, passions, family responsibilities, and relationships, I've noticed a shift in my emotional landscape. While I've always been good at hiding my feelings, lately, they've been bubbling to the surface, especially in the early morning and late at night. Simple things like my mom waking me up in the morning or a minor disagreement with my brother leave me feeling alone and misunderstood. During the day, I put on a brave face, but at night, the floodgates open, and I find myself overwhelmed by tears and questions. From poignant movie scenes to witnessing injustices, also texting with loved ones or any reality checks.every little thing hits me harder than before. It's confusing and sometimes embarrassing that Why only in these hours I feel this way? The unspoken thoughts and challenges within a boy must find...