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Choosing Long-Term Growth Over Temporary Pleasures In life, we often find ourselves caught between two choices — one that gives us short-term pleasure and another that leads to long-term growth. Most of us know what is right, yet we end up choosing the temporary option. It feels easy, fun, and effortless. But what we don’t realize is that these small choices, made again and again, shape our future. Sometimes, I also indulge in things that give me momentary happiness — scrolling on social media for hours, wasting time on useless talks, skipping important work for entertainment, or making decisions based on impulse. These actions give pleasure for a while but leave behind guilt, regret, and wasted time. It’s a cycle of temporary joy and permanent pain. But today, I decide to break that cycle. There are so many better things to do — reading, exercising, learning something new, working on my goals, or simply spending quiet time with myself. These things don’t always give instant rewards, b...

Angry bird ? No

  Why You Should Never Act in Anger In life, we all feel angry at times. It’s a normal emotion. But the biggest mistake we make is acting while we are still angry. Speaking or doing something in anger often leads to regret later. When we are angry, our mind is not clear. We stop thinking logically. We say things that hurt others, we take decisions that are not wise, and we behave in ways that do not reflect our true self. Later, when the anger goes away, we realize the damage we’ve done – to our relationships, to our image, and even to our goals. I have personally experienced this. Every time I acted out of anger, I ended up messing things up – with my words, my actions, and my behavior. I have hurt people I care about and created problems that could have been avoided with just a little patience. That’s why it is important to pause when you’re angry. Don’t reply. Don’t decide. Don’t react. Just take a break. Go for a walk, take a deep breath, stay silent, or simply leave the situat...

Focus on urself

  Focus on Yourself, Not on Others In life, we often compare ourselves with others. We see their success, their happiness, or the way they live—and suddenly we feel small. This can make us feel insecure, jealous, or even unhappy with our own life. But over time, I’ve come to realize something important: these negative emotions are empty. They don’t help us grow. They only distract us. The truth is, comparing yourself with others never brings real peace. Everyone has a different story, different timing, and different struggles. What looks perfect on the outside might not be perfect inside. So, wasting time worrying about others only pulls you away from your own growth. Instead, the key to a better life is self-improvement. You don’t have to be better than others—you just need to be better than who you were yesterday. Life is about correcting your mistakes, learning from your failures, and slowly shaping yourself into the best version of you. It’s not easy. It takes time, patience, a...

Never give up

  Never Give Up — Even When You Fail In life, failure is inevitable. You will fail. You will lose. You will make mistakes. Even the strongest dreams tremble under the weight of doubt and inconsistency. But if there’s one truth that remains, it’s this: never give up. We often set out with big dreams and high hopes, expecting a smooth road to success. But reality is different. You stumble. Plans fall apart. People may not believe in you. Worse, sometimes you stop believing in yourself. But this is not the end—it’s just a part of the journey. Mistakes are not signs of weakness; they are the stepping stones of growth. Each failure teaches a lesson. Every loss builds resilience. And in moments when you feel broken and defeated, that tiny flicker of hope within you is more powerful than you think. The dream may seem distant, the process may seem painful, and progress may be slow. But if you keep showing up—every day, even when you don’t feel like it—you’re already winning. Consistency, n...

The unseen path

  Title: Embracing the Mess: The Unseen Path to Success Success is often painted as a straight road — discipline, focus, achievement. But the reality is far from that. It's more like a chaotic, confusing, emotional rollercoaster that tests you at every turn. And lately, I’ve been on that exact ride. There are days when I feel like a complete failure. I make mistakes I promised myself I wouldn’t. I lose consistency. I compare my journey with others and fall into the trap of self-doubt. Anxiety creeps in, my head spins with stress, and I wonder — am I even on the right path? But through all this inner turmoil, something powerful became clear: this struggle is not the opposite of success — it is part of it. Every failure I face, every mistake I regret, and every breakdown I endure is shaping me. Not in the way I imagined success would feel, but in a much deeper, meaningful way. I’m learning. I’m adapting. I’m building the mental and emotional strength needed to handle what I dream of ...

Cost of cashback

  Title: The Cost of Cashback: A Reflection on Greed Disguised as Gain By Sugyan Nanda In a world increasingly driven by digital payments and marketing gimmicks, cashback offers have emerged as a new temptation. The idea is simple and catchy: spend a certain amount, and you’ll get a small percentage back. It seems like a win-win — but lately, I’ve realized that this so-called "gain" is silently draining my wallet, and more importantly, my sense of control. I started using cashback schemes with the mindset of saving money. After all, if I was going to spend anyway, why not earn something back? But over time, I found myself spending just to get cashback, not because I needed to. I was transferring money unnecessarily, making purchases I didn't need, all in the hope of earning a small reward. The worst part? Often, the cashback amount I received didn’t even match the hype that pulled me in. It became a habit — one that seemed harmless but was financially and psychologically ...

Second place silence

" What It Feels to Be Second: A Margin That Meant Everything " By Sugyan Nanda Dreams don’t always die with a loud crash. Sometimes, they dissolve quietly—by 0.34 marks . At one point of my life, I have envisioned a moment. Standing tall at the convocation, wearing that medal of honour, hearing my name announced as the Gold Medalist in M.A. Political Science, and watching my parents’ eyes gleam with pride. It was more than just a medal. It was for every sacrifice, every late night, every rejection faced, and every time I told myself, “One day, this will be worth it.” But that day… didn’t come as I imagined. I missed it. By 0.34 marks. Being second is a strange place to be. You are celebrated, but not remembered. You are praised, but not rewarded. And what hurts more is not that I failed—I didn’t—but that I came so close to the dream I built for years, only to watch it slip through my fingers. This isn’t the first time. In matric, in +2, and now in postgraduation, I have seen ...

A promise to change

  A New Beginning at 22: My Promise to Change At the age of 22, I have come to a deep realization—I've made many mistakes in life. Some small, some big. Mistakes in different areas—studies, behavior, relationships, emotions, and decisions. And yes, they have hurt me. They made me feel ashamed, guilty, and sad. Sometimes I would sit alone and think, “Why did I do this? Why wasn’t I better?” That burden used to stay in my mind like a heavy weight. But today, I’ve had enough. I don't want to carry that weight anymore. I don't want to live in regret. The past has already happened, and I can’t change it. But what I can change is myself—my present and my future. From now on, I am promising myself something very serious: I will not repeat the same mistakes again. I will take every lesson from the past and use it to grow. I want to become the best version of myself—no matter how hard it gets, no matter how long it takes. I want to become a good human being, a responsible student, a...

Selective Outrage: When Jokes Spark Controversy, But Bigger Issues Don’t

 “Selective Outrage: When Jokes Spark Controversy, But Bigger Issues Don’t” Disclaimer: This article reflects personal opinions and is not intended to hurt, offend, or target any individual or group. Readers are encouraged to think critically, verify facts, and form their own perspectives. (Someone turned on the TV) I saw a CM of a state talking about a youtube comedy show..yes you hear it right A YOUTUBE SHOW. What has happened in the country that a CM decided to address it ? To answer this question and explain the current situation, Myself Bimal Kumar Mahapatra, along With Sugyan Nanda came up with this blog. Comedy is meant to make people laugh, but sometimes, it can also lead to trouble. But in Today’s world, where outrage spreads faster than context, comedians are constantly at the Wrong side of the story. That’s exactly what happened with India’s Got Latent, a fun show Hosted by Samay Raina, that suddenly found itself at the center of a big controversy. During an Episode, gu...

Heat blood

 This night has no end.. if will only after that day. Will be written after attaining the desired outcome. Found reasons....